Monday, February 1, 2010

Memory Monday continues...or will it?

Do you want to hear something really sad? I know I'm getting old because I'm really losing my memory. I used to be able to recall everything with perfect clarity. Most of my siblings are older, so I was still young when they got married and moved out. I knew every sibling's birthday, every sibling's spouse's birthday and their children's birthdays, I knew their phone numbers by heart, and I could even remember their addresses. Now-a-days, in the age of cell phones and speed dial, I can barely remember my own phone number let alone anyone else's. I'm forgetting the little details of life, too. I used to be able to remember every detail of conversations I had with people, or of things that happened at school or with friends, etc, but now I can barely remember what happened yesterday. You all may think I'm exaggerating, but when someone was retelling a story and I had been at the original event, I used to wonder why they would mix up little details of that story. Why would they say that So-And-So said something, when it was Such-And-Such who said it? And why would they say we ran into them in the produce section of Smith's, when we were clearly in the dairy isle at Albertsons? But now I'm finding myself doing the same things. I can't remember exactly who said what, or how long ago, or where we were, or just exactly what was said...you get the picture. Is it just a sign that I'm getting older? Or am I letting my brain go to waste? The latter possibility worries me, clearly, because I should be using my brain now more than ever. And don't even get me started on the names and faces from high school I've forgotten. You'd think Facebook would've helped me in that situation, but you'd be wrong.

So, I'll still be writing memories, but I'm going to have to start looking back through my journals, which are full of a lot of things that won't really interest you, like who my friends and I used to like in high school. Oh yes, I was well trained in the art of stalking long before blog-stalking became popular. Ok, I shouldn't call it stalking, really, as that implies we followed boys for days figuring out their lives and analyzing every action. We weren't that crazy. It was more like admiring from afar. We never followed anyone, but we certainly did carry out a drive-by or two...and I'm going to stop now. That's enough sharing for today.

7 comments:

Brooke said...

It's happening to me too... majorly! I was starting to wonder the same things, but I'm glad to know I'm not alone, even though I wouldn't wish memory loss on anyone.

MelanieBrenchley said...

Did you actually mean, "the high school boys' Dads we admired from afar?" :)

Michelle Montgomery said...

You know..sometimes I think actual stalking is almost better than today's form of web stalking. Who knows how many people could secretly be stalking you on the web (like me for example)...atleast in the old days a drive by was more obvious!

Unknown said...

I never left a comment when you requested one (bad!). Anyway, I DO read your blog! Also, I have a request for a Memory Monday. What can you remember about the hot dog stands in Brazil...come on I gotta hear it one more time! LOL!

Unknown said...

Welcome to the club!!! Most of what you post from the childhood days I don't remember at all. But I do still remember what your middle name is and when your birthday is. And I remember how awesome you are and how much I love you!!!

thelivesofthebradyfamily said...

I remember you had really good memory! I used to, too...or at least that's what I remember...but I could be wrong. I have problem remembering what happened yesterday, too. I can't live without a calender anymore...it helps me remember what I have coming up, but also I need it to remember what happened just a few days before.

Anonymous said...

i think i was on a few of those drive-bye's with you, and yes Melanie, sometimes it was the boys' dad's we were really taken with! remember all of the laundry you used to do Robin? i especially remember how crazy you were about it right before your mission! if you need any facts straightened out, we can definetly consult my journal! love you ~taunia